As a non-traditional law student the likelihood that you are married and/or have children is probably greater than that of a traditional law student. This post is geared toward those of us that must deal with school and children. By the way, this is not an easy task

If you have children then you already know this . . . children are needy! But this is not a bad thing; it is simply the way it is. As a father of six children I know of what I speak.

Children, even teenagers (although they may not know it), need us . . . a lot. For the law student trying to manage even a light class load, the stresses of dealing with children can grow quite intense. One thing you must always do is keep your cool. Never take your frustrations out on your kids. If you feel like you are overwhelmed try doing some of the following:

• Talk to your kids about what you are learning. They may have no clue what you are saying, but they will enjoy the time with you. It is also good review for you.
• Don’t read or study at obviously inopportune times. You are just asking to get frustrated.
• If you have a lot of work to do try explaining to your kids that you need some extra time for study. Kids can actually be quite reasonable when they are treated with some respect.
• Don’t forget to play and talk with your kids. It may surprise you what just a few minutes of quality time with your kids can accomplish.
• If at all possible wait to perform school tasks until your kids are in bed.
• Finally, keep your priorities straight. Don’t alienate your family.

I have six children between the ages of 7 and 17. I know what it is like to get frustrated. There have been times I have wanted to tear my hair out at the mere thought of all I have to do. But then I calm down, take some deep breaths, and compose myself. I have often felt like there is no way I will ever get my reading and studying finished. But I have been on the honor roll every term thus far. It is a long journey, but it is not impossible. Keep hope and hang in there. If you have your priorities in order and are truly resolved, you will succeed in your law school endeavors as well as in your family life.